How to feel Sexy and EMPOWERED through medical dilemma’s:

There are times in our lives where some type of medical dilemma hinders our own self confidence and the urge to be or feel sexy not only for ourselves but also for our significant others/partners.

One thing to always keep in mind is that the situation is absolutely temporary!!! First things first, ask your health care professional if there is anything to restrict yourself from and then it’s time to get creative. For me, if I feel like I am just not in the mood or icky, then I find my favorite drink of choice, plop down where I feel comfortable and decide if it’s a sexy movie or book kinda moment.

Sometimes we have to kick start our own arousal to get back into a self confident mode and into a sexual state of mind. You have to get to know yourself on a more intimate level and explore your interest to push past everything else going on in life.

Sexual confidence is not about being “good” in bed. It’s not about the common perfect body, and it sure in the heck doesn’t come from having a lot of sex! Lol Sexual confidence is feeling comfortable in your own body right at this very moment, knowing you deserve pleasure and being able to articulate what you want/need/desire/enjoy, as well as listening to the needs of your partner. We can all wallow in our own pity party every now and then…give yourself a small amount of time, and snap out of this!!!