Welcome to the Blog—Where We Say the Things Everyone’s Thinking (But Way Louder)
This isn’t your grandma’s blog (unless she’s into badass confidence, raw conversations, and unapologetic self-expression—then hey, Granny, welcome ). Here, we dive into intimacy, body confidence, sexuality, and all the messy, beautiful sh*t in between. No fluff. No sugarcoating. Just real talk that’ll make you laugh, squirm, reflect, and—if I’m doing my job right—ignite something inside you.
Ready to get uncomfortable in all the best ways? Scroll on, babe. It’s about to get real.

How to Create and Sustain a Deep Connection in Your Relationship
Looking to reignite connection and explore your desire as a couple? Brii Cher’ri offers erotic, emotionally honest photo experiences that go beyond the surface. These sessions are built for couples ready to get vulnerable, get real, and get turned all the way back on—together.

Blindfold Play: 6 Surprising Benefits of Playing with the Unknown
Blindfolds aren't about being edgy or performative.
They're about deepening the connection—with your partner, with your body, and with the present moment.
And if all of this feels both intriguing and a little intimidating, you’re not alone.
You don’t have to figure it all out on your own.
As a Certified Sexologist and Erotica Photographer, I help you go beyond the Pinterest version of sex and step into real, raw intimacy.

No One Taught Us to Want
Why I Started Photographing Women’s Pleasure—and Refused to Keep It Quiet
Growing up, we all heard about the boys.
Their stiff socks.
Their long showers.
Their porn searches.
Their jokes—loud, shameless, even celebrated.
Boys and their desire were normal. Expected.
Even if it made us uncomfortable, even if it made them reckless.
It was allowed.
But us?
We weren’t taught to want.
We were taught to be wanted.

5 Simple Attachment Exercises to Strengthen Your Relationship
Most couples don’t struggle because they’re incompatible—they struggle because they never learned secure bonding behaviors. In this blog, we break down 5 simple, therapist-approved attachment exercises you can try at home. From the “5-minute hold” to the “repair before bed” rule, these practices help you feel seen, safe, and emotionally connected in your relationship.

5 Ways to Initiate Sexy Time With Your Partner (Without Making It Weird)

Staying Hard: Breaking the Shame Spiral Around Erectile Difficulties
Erectile dysfunction
Stress (Cortisol is a boner assassin)
Anxiety and performance pressure
Guilt or shame around sex (hello religious trauma)
Boring-ass repetitive sex
Porn addiction
Bad self-image
Relationship drama
Not enough sleep (I see you scrolling TikTok at 3am)
Sure, physical causes exist—diabetes, heart disease, low T—but if you're waking up with wood and losing it during partnered play, congrats: it’s probably mental.

15 Playful Sex & Intimacy Games That Build Connection, Confidence, and Chemistry
15 Playful Sex & Intimacy Games That Build Connection, Confidence, and Chemistry
May 6
You weren't made for mediocrity.
You crave connection that crackles, seduction that doesn't play it safe, and intimacy that feels alive in your skin—not just in your head.
Whether you're exploring kink, deepening trust with a partner, or learning how to ask for what you actually want—these games aren't just fun. They're the foreplay your relationship should have had all along.
This isn't just "try this at home" content—it's an invitation to reclaim your erotic power, deepen your sensual intelligence, and remember what it feels like to be insatiably desired.
Let's dive into the games, the pleasure, and the skills that'll shift your entire intimate life.

How to Stay Lovers (Not Roommates)
Let’s call it like it is: most couples don’t break up because of big things. They burn out because of the slow drift.
The daily autopilot. The “we’re just tired.” The “maybe next week.”
And suddenly? You’re not lovers anymore—you’re logistics managers in matching sweatpants.
But here’s the truth that no one’s yelling loud enough:
Love isn’t enough. Lust needs attention. Intimacy needs tending. And connection? It needs some damn electricity.
brii Cher’ri
- your erotic artist + badass sidekick
the bold, unapologetic erotic artist, certified sexologist, and powerhouse behind The Boudoir Studio. I don’t just take sexy photos—I ignite confidence, awaken desire, and help you reconnect with your raw, authentic self.
I’m known for my blunt, dark humor, zero-BS approach, and ability to make you feel comfortable enough to shed layers—physically and emotionally. Whether you’re flying solo or bringing a partner, I’ll guide you through a journey of self-love, body acceptance, and intimacy exploration that’s as empowering as it is unforgettable.
My studio is inclusive AF—welcoming all bodies, genders, sexualities, and lifestyles. I don’t just capture images; I create experiences that shatter expectations and have you walking away thinking, “Damn, that changed everything.”