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Why Erotica photography is important for Couples & Individuals : The boudoir Studio Boone NC

As in erotica photographer in the south and really anywhere I get asked a lot of questions I get a lot of weird phone calls and I deal with lot of interesting things to be brave And to be real I love most of it now that we are called I could probably live without the reared sexual calls from men who just want to be creepy and ask me stupid questions Right

But all the rest of it the interestingness the diverseness the different the edginess it all just makes my heart so happy erotica photography is just so different from the rest of what people provide and what photographers typically provide it's a whole different look into the lives of these people who are in front of your camera and they're intimacy and connection with one another it allows me to see a side of them that almost nobody else gets to see and that's such a remarkable thing for me.

Most of the time I think that when people think about erotica starving number one they're like what the hell right they don't really get like why somebody would do that what the point of it is or they're absolutely impossibly intrigued and have all the questions obviously I like the second response

Because erotic erotica photography it's not just sex it's not just a kink of being voyeuristic or an exhibition is it's so connective and deep and it has so many levels to it it provides such a eye-opening experience not to just couples but individuals into their sexuality their intimacy their desires and kinks and it gives a ground to open communication with partners or even with yourself about things that you might not have ever communicated to anyone before it opens up the floor to experiment with things that maybe you've always wanted to experiment with but never were like yeah I really want to be whipped and this erotica photography experience allows you to have that moment and to talk about those things even if you don't decide to capture them on camera it give you gives you the open you know it gives you the out it gives you the opportunity to be like oh she has fisting on this list maybe I'm into that or she has wax play on this I don't we haven't tried that maybe we should try that before to see like if we like that and it just it's really fun it's so fun to give these couples an opportunity to just open up try new things and have so many new opportunities and experiences with each other including like the erotica photography part it's so much more than that and provides so much more than that to our couples in our individuals and I find it to be so invigorating and enticing to be able to do that for people and to watch their change in their life and in their intimacy by having one of these experiences and by diving in and choosing me as the erotica photographer I'm allowed to and I'm allowed to provide this experience and push them as a couple towards higher heights as intimate partners or intimate self and that's remarkable I also kind of asked my clients to do some homework I asked him to do tasks assignments that just help build all of it and help them build their confidence and again their sexuality and intimacy before this photography experience and it's funny because in the south in North Carolina and Virginia and Tennessee you know erotica photography is definitely few and far between and making people understand it's impact and it's worth is incredibly hard sometimes but most of the time when they get it they get it and it's such a great thing to bring to such an area

I get so many questions unlike how in erotica session goes or what happens during a session what does it cost what does the neurotica photography experience cost me in the end or you know all of this and you can figure it out by emailing me or you can figure it out by reading my website because all these answers different it cost what pretty much what you decide it cost it can it varies and it's never the same for really any couple every couple is a little bit different or every person and every session and every experience is different nothing is the same I've never had one experience that is exactly like the next experience or another experience it's always different because everybody is different and everybody's unique and so it's funny when I get asked like questions like how many poses do you do or how many backups do I get with my photography session because I've never really been somebody who puts a number of things right so outfits I'm like ooh I like this and I like this and I like this and like we rank them like favorite to non favorites and then we hit as many as possible before I think that like hey I think we have a crazy amount of good ones like we're good here and for time it's really just like however long we shoot you know I don't really have a Time on it I usually say like an erotica session is typically 3 to 4 hours and then for like backdrops I mean I shoot the whole studio we're going to bounce around and try all the things and what your vibe does and what you're interested looks like is going to determine what you know your session goes like and how playful you are I'm probably going to give you more playful sets and for you know more serious and edgy people I'm going to give more serious and edgy things and it really depends on that like unless you give me of things you're into and things you want to do and what your intimate life looks like for me to like plan your erotica experience around those things and I plan it around your like personalities and all that but how as for how it's going to go down to the deets like I don't know until you walk through my door and I you know wing it because that's what an artist does and I want to create the best art with you in the moment