We’ve all been there—waiting for the “right” moment to finally feel like we’re enough. Whether it’s waiting to hit a goal weight, reach a career milestone, or feel more confident, we tend to put off truly embracing who we are. We tell ourselves that once we fix all those things we see as missing, we’ll finally be ready to step into our power.

But here’s the truth: You don’t get your strength, confidence, or joy from fixing your so-called “zeros.” The real power comes from what’s already infinite inside you—those qualities, dreams, and strengths that have been there all along.

Let me tell you a story about someone who learned this firsthand. Let’s call her Emily. Emily spent years feeling like she was constantly chasing an ever-moving finish line. She told herself she’d be happy and fulfilled once she had more success, more confidence, or more external validation. She was focused on her zeros—the things she thought she was lacking.

One day, tired of waiting, Emily decided to stop. She made a conscious choice to start living now instead of waiting for some future version of herself. And as she started tapping into her emotions and her real self, something incredible happened. Emily realized that all the things she thought were missing—confidence, strength, joy—weren’t actually missing at all. They had always been within her, infinite and ready to be embraced.

She began focusing on her infinites instead of her zeros: the infinite love she had to give, the infinite creativity that fueled her passions, the infinite resilience that had carried her through so many tough times. She stopped waiting for external factors to define her worth and started tapping into the boundless potential inside herself. And in doing so, she discovered a new kind of freedom.

Emily’s journey is one we can all relate to. So often, we focus on what we don’t have: the zero confidence, zero success, zero validation. We let those zeros define us, thinking they’re holding us back from being the best version of ourselves. But in reality, the power lies in shifting that focus—finding your infinites instead of dwelling on the zeros.

Your infinites are those qualities that make you who you are. They’re the dreams that drive you, the resilience that has helped you overcome challenges, the passion you bring to everything you care about. When you begin to value those things, you start living life differently. You stop waiting and start being—being authentic, being present, being enough right now.

You don’t need to wait until you’ve checked all the boxes to step into your full potential. You already have infinite strength, infinite creativity, infinite love, and infinite possibility within you. The challenge is learning to see it and embrace it, even when the world tells you to focus on what’s missing.

So, here’s my question to you: What are your infinites? What are the parts of you that are limitless, that already make you whole, even if you’ve been overlooking them?

Self-discovery is about realizing that you don’t have to wait for permission or validation to live fully and authentically. It’s about uncovering the infinite beauty, strength, and power that’s already within you and trusting that it’s enough. And when you do, life begins to feel different. You’re no longer chasing something outside of yourself—you’re living from a place of fullness, embracing everything that makes you uniquely you.

If you’ve been waiting for the perfect moment to step into your power, let this be your reminder: the moment is now. Your infinite self is already here, ready to be seen, loved, and celebrated.

Stop focusing on your zeros, and start embracing your infinites.

With love,
Brii Cher’ri