HOW TO BE A BOSS BABE IN YOUR EVERYDAY LIFE : NORTH CAROLINA BOUDOIR STUDIO
how to be a boss babe in your everyday life. .
when looking at the word boss babe or even researching it I got lots of info on women who own their own business...
Many of you probably just said "well obviously" in your head. But hear me out. Why can’t we all be boss babes? I mean we are all in charge or running something right? Whether that’s our mouths our imaginations or our children but of course our life. we are all the boss of one thing that’s most important and that one thing is ourselves.
so I’ve written some tips on how to BOSS up and be in better control and run our lives better as the amazing babes we are.
Tip number ONE.
1. Get over yourself.
Quite literally. Stop making excuses stop losing time, stop wasting your energy on stupid shit. Get yourself and your shit together and get oast all the hurdles you've created for yourself. Is this easy ...Nah.
Babes lets be real I just had to stop myself from scrolling Facebook to be like yo brii you should do something actually productive instead of wasting time. and here I am.
Ladies we gotta stop giving so much of our time and energy to things that don’t make us better. you ladies make me better you push me to be the best I can be and I want you to feel the same. But first, you gotta stop holding yourself back.
Tip number TWO
2. Lose the losers.
Stop surrounding yourself with Asshats. I don’t care if its uncle johnny or mama sue if they aren’t pushing you to be better supporting your initiative or giving you some sort of positivity they gotta go. Deadweight people have no place in your life besides bringing you down.
I’ve learned I cant surround myself with people with no aspirations. I have goals I have dreams and we each have a whole life to live so much time to achieve and conquer and being at a standstill, not bettering yourself is doing yourself disfavor as is surrounding yourself with people like that. Surround yourself with people who are ambitious and goal-oriented who have positive outlooks and push you to be better.
TIP NUMBER THREE
3.BE YOU.
Be authentic. if you aren’t authentic and true to yourself and others how can you grow yourself? you’ll be too busy putting up this facade to do any growing as the real you. it took me a couple of years to figure this out to be open about who I truly am and not giving a fuck but when I did I found myself so much more happy and less anxious about each and everything I did or wore. I had accepted myself and I was proud of it and that's exactly what you need to do.
Tip Number Four
4. Make Moves.
Wake up and make decisions that better you. your life and bring you that much closer to your dreams and aspirations. We all get in this sequence of moves and decisions that we don’t stray from our set schedules to better ourselves or to actually move towards any of our goals. it all gets put on the back burner because well everyday life is happening. So. take 10 minutes in the morning and grab a cup of water sit down and do something that betters you and brings you closer to that goal or dream.