BDSM intro toys and tools for dipping your toys into the kink world

here is my list of some intro bdsm toys and accessories to add into your intimate life while your beginning your bdsm journey!
Each comes with its own pleasure and possibly its own pain if youre into that !
weve made this list to help link you to items that will ignite a new fire within your intimacy!
remember to educate yourselves on these before just going and buying it and start whipping the shit out of each other!
Ive included links of how to videos and education behind the toys included in the bottom of the blog!

bed restraint system

want to try out being restricted? or restricting the movement of your partner? bed restraints are the easiest way to do so! They are easily hidden & easy to use!

spreader bar

Spreader bars are a fun way to try restrictive movement but also new positions in the bedroom! Also they are super sexy!

horse crop

horse crops are that perfect little sting, perfect to add a little more spice than spanking into your intimate life

low temp wax candles

ever wanted to play with temperature? Low temp wax plat is the perfect way to dip your toes in!

Flogger

Floggers are probably my favorite, to shoot, to use, to play with. they are a perfect amount of sting BUT they do require education, learning + training. serious damage can be done if flogging isnt done right!

clamps - nipples, clit???

clamps can be put anywhere and are the perfect pinch little or big and they can tighten or loosen and the string when you take them off is like no other….

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blindfolds

Take away those senses baby! Sensory play takes your intimacy to a whoel new level

leash

Like being degraded? controlled ? Pulled on?
walked around? Try out that degradation kink by trying on that collar and attaching a leash

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Rope

Rope play whether being used to tie up to a hook or just wrap and tie up ones body as decoration or to restrict movement is a great tool for the bedroom! Though as with everything it takes a little bit of learning + requires a certain type of rope for it to be enjoyable!

hooks

Usuaully we place our hooks in beams, walls, cielings…. They are used for holding up swings, hooking rope to, or chains. they are a way to add a little umph up to being restrained & if you are educated + trained you can even learn suspension!

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collar

Though collars have become very mainstream in todays society, in the bdsm community the collar represents a special bond and relationship. A trust like no other comes from that of being collared by another. But they can also be fun to add into the bedroom to add control & power play into your intimate setting.

massage oil

Massages are one of the most important sensual things for intimate partners, They create connection and a touch that ignites passion when done right & having a great lotion or massage oil is going to make your partner and yourself super happy and smooth!

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feather wand

like a little tickle? Some sensory play?
This is a perfect thing to try !

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natural lube

Safe & effective lube is one of the most important things to have in the bedroom! Try this one out! PH balance is super important and most lubes will mess your whole PH up in a quick second!






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