Don't skip the orgasms just cause you have visitors this holiday season : North Carolina Erotica photographer

Did you know?
The holiday season actually INCREASES the amount of sex that couples are having?
I mean I was kind of surprised! I get it the love, joy, excitement, feeling of connection and just all the feels, right?
But come on the stress of making sure everything is perfect, dealing with the making of the food, the wrapping of the presents and of course the visits OR having guests in your home, either way it can be a fuck all or a fuck none.
So here’s some tips on how to still get it in + have a sexy fun and intimately fun holiday even with all the people around.

Don’t tell Santa but we’re going to be a little sneaky.

I feel like the most obvious of ideas is to make excuses but that seems pretty obvious, right?

But let’s get a little more in-depth than that.

Be tired, don’t worry, they will expect it, it's the holidays!
So head for a nap, go to bed early get up later if you can.
Make your time together alone a priority there's no reason why you shouldn't be able to say I need a snuggle moment with my partner or a calm down moment. People would much rather that than a freak out I promise!

USE every opportunity to step away together!
Need something from the store, go get it, need something from the shed/the basement…a friend's house?
Not only is this a way to get intimate without others knowing it’s also a way to add a little excitement and edginess maybe a sense of omg I cant believe we’re doing this into your intimate life during the holidays!
Car sex may not be the most comfortable but it definitely adds a whole new element of excitement!


let’s get vibing

So I say bring or charge or be ready to use a toy or two ❤️

Remote-controlled toys can be a ridiculous amount of fun, and playfulness on top of super hot and steamy. Hand over the reigns and see if you can hold it together while the vibes run high during Christmas dinner. Be careful though don't want to let the cat out of the bag or the oh out too loud hahaha that'd be a Christmas to remember 

Another way to implement toys is if you both can't slip away alone play can be teasing and fun. Sending a spicy video to your partner while they whip up the mashed potatoes can really have them stumbling for words and picturing exactly what they'll do to you later when you finally get time alone.

Tips to add

Don't ever give up your bedroom to any guests. 

That will kill all and every real chance at intimacy and also your partner probably won't be the happiest especially if your bunking seperately.

Your bedroom is your private connecting space and it's not a place that should be openly shared with everyone 

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If someone calls out your shenanigans …

Laugh it off. Or be direct or tell them it's none of their business. But no matter what DONT be ashamed your intimacy and relationship deserve time and attention and don't need to be stopped because of the holidays.

If you’re too stressed.

I get it I do, but hear me out, an orgasm or two or twelve really will help that headache and all that stress quiet down so try it out. You'll be happy you did.